“uhh, but I guess things change,
it’s funny how someone else’s success brings pain,
when ya no longer involved that person has it all,
and you just stuck standing there…”
—“Say Somethin'” by Timabaland featuring Drake
Why does success change people: not just the people who become successful but sometimes the people who are around the people who attain success? Perhaps the more appropriate query is are these people not really changing at all and simply experiencing a metamorphosis or just evolving into who they truly are meant to be? For instance, does money really change people, or is it magnifying negative or positive traits that a person already possesses? Even though Timabaland’s song featuring Drake, “Say Somethin'” addresses multiple topics, the actual hook to the song is one almost anyone can identify with.
In these particular lyrics, Drake exclaims, “…I guess things change.” To guess not only establishes uncertainty, but it also gives an impression that it is not necessarily what a person wants. Change, especially with loved ones and those we expect to be there for us when we are successful is difficult to embrace. Usually the change is one of negativity which reigns true in the following line, “it’s funny how someone else’s success brings pain.” Is it implausible for a person to not rejoice in another person’s happiness or success when his or her circumstances appear to be bleak? It takes a strong and spiritually grounded individual to be able to remain supportive with authentic sincerity as he or she potentially struggles with covertly coveting that person’s success or is envious and wondering why he or she has not reaped the same “harvest of triumph.”
As a result, some people remain involved with those who have attained success or are on their way to being “successful” in hopes that they will be rewarded, but something to remember is that person’s success is that person’s success. Of course, no one reaches that zenith on his or her own without the help of someone or something; nevertheless, are you entitled to the status, respect and even money associated with someone else’s success just because you were there or are there? Be supportive for the sake of being supportive, not because you want to catch the windfall associated with this person’s possible success. Sometimes it’s imperative to evaluate who’s who and if they are there for you or what you can give them. As painful as it may be, on occasion, you must leave the people “stuck standin’ there” when their only purpose of being affiliated with you is to feed off of your success. There are those people who are steadily moving up the ladder of success and those left standing there, dormant and complaining about why everybody else is doing well…which one do you want to be?
Please feel free to share your thoughts.
~Anonomz aka Tanya Harris
Bonus English Lesson:
In these particular lyrics, Drake employs a slant rhyme using assonance. This means the vowel sound is the prominent rhyme feature.
“uhh, but I guess things change,
it’s funny how someone else’s success brings pain”
The “ge” in change and the “n” sound in pain do not rhyme, but the long vowel sound for the letter “a” does.